The narcissist, thus, feels that he has aided and abetted the process, that he facilitated his own abandonment. Even though I am happy to be away from all of his abuse, it makes me feel really lousy that he never wanted me in that way. He uses his awesome intellect, or knowledge real or pretended to secure adoration, adulation and admiration. And while doing so, the narcissist feels a great relief: Put differently, the narcissist experiences through abandonment even through the mere risk of abandonment a re-enactment of the very mistreatment and abuses, which, earlier in his life, transformed him into the deformed creature that he is. So yes not everybody is addicted because they are depressed or have anxiety. He begins to disintegrate and veers into utter and complete dysfunction.
Remember that Reuters article about kinky sex see below? Understanding the Mind of a Narcissist. Carlson argues that such people "might think arrogance is a positive trait, like extraversion. I realize that I'm in the minority on this site male , but I've gone with a mature female narcissist for nearly two years, and I am currently trying to break away from her.
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She is nice, easy-going, gives them presents… It hit me badly but I did not react. Detach from the narc. I have had quite a few major life crises. Yes, narcissists are great liars, and he lies about a lot of things; but this I believe he is not lying about. The narcissist tries to convince himself that such abuse is an expected result of the daily friction of cohabitation, especially by partners with radically different personalities. To him, emotions are mimicry and pretence. Somatic narcissists simply use women as objects and then discard them.