Fisting instructions gay

The feeling of fullness that fisting provides can feel like having to pee, and so can G-spot stimulation. Usually I things that remove distractions in a subtle way. Most cocks aren't wide or long enough to do what a fist can; fill the rectum, prod the far side or go through the lower colon; so taking a hand is much more intense. Also, anything that must be done slowly and carefully gives partners a chance to really connect. A llocate enough paper towels per person before you start the session to avoid transmission of any STIs such as Hepatitis C and if you are using conventional terry towels use one per person. Like having the lights low, curtains drawn, and energetic music on low in the background. The risks of contracting HIV and other sexually transmitted infections is much greater for an unprotected ungloved top than it is for the bottom.

What you do and what you take is up to you, but please play safe. When a man experiences getting fisted and the pleasure that originates from his arse, he doesn't think about his cock being soft or hard. This can mean longer and longer sessions. Some guys like to use drugs to enable them to take a fist.

At this point, your fingers are not in any way in the shape of a fist! Fisting can be intense experience and make your partner feel vulnerable. Here are some of my tips for fisting first timers:. When I hear this, I know it is not a physical barrier but a mental one.

And being goal oriented about sex is a sure fire way to be disappointed. The person being fisted might want to touch themselves or use toys. Be ready to slow down, or take breaks, as needed. Let fisting be a journey, not a destination. Because there are no pain receptors past the arsehole, it is recommended to be fully alert during fisting as drugs and alcohol can desensitise you even more. Take the time to stretch and slowly work his hole with your fingers and dildos rather that pushing a fist in straight away. Gloves also smooth the edges of your hands and nails.